酒不醉人人自醉，色不迷人人自迷

jiǔ bù zuì rén rén zì zuì , sè bù mí rén rén zì míjiubuzuirenrenzizui,sebumirenrenzimi

1. wine doesn't make men drunk: men get themselves intoxicated. Lust does not overpower men: men surrender themselves to lust

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