馬には乗ってみよ人には添うてみよ

うまにはのってみよひとにはそうてみよumanihanottemiyohitonihasoutemiyo

expression

1. you can't judge someone until you've spent time with them
2. you can't judge something until you've tried it
3. try a horse by riding him, and judge a man by living with him

Study it in Yanamino