人には添うてみよ馬には乗ってみよ

ひとにはそうてみようまにはのってみよhitonihasoutemiyoumanihanottemiyo

expression

1. you can't judge someone until you've spent time with them
2. you can't judge something until you've tried it
3. judge a man by living with him, and try a horse by riding him

Study it in Yanamino